‘How’s Christmas?’ someone asked. When everyday seems ok, there’s nothing special about Christmas, even for Buddhist who gets surrounded by ‘Christmasness’ come December. This Christmas was special though. Now we know in general that not only is everyday not Christmas for some, but the kind of festivity associated with that word is foreign to some every day of the year. There’s no Christmas, no Vesak and no Avurudu for some people. And that’s our Christmas story this year.
The place name is romantic and rolls off the tongue like
poetry: Gallinda Mookalana in the Kuttikulama Grama Niladhari Division in
Thirappane. Gallinda Mookalana could be
broken down to Gal (stone) + Linda (well); a rock-well, then in a mookalana or jungle. And in this jungle of the rock-well there’s a
cave. Even more romantic. But that’s it. No further romance. For in this cave lives a 36 year old widow
(her husband is one of hundreds who have been felled by CKDu or Chronic Kidney
Disease of Unknown Sources), Chandrika by name.
She has two sons, 5 and 2 years of age.
That cave is home to Chandrika, her two children and her father, who is
now 75.
The details were in the Lankadeepa
of December 25, 2013.
‘My father is too old to work. Whatever the difficulties are one must take
care of parents. My children cry because they are hungry. The older boy begs to be taken to school. I walk around the nearby villages, begging
for food. This is the rainy season. When it rains I have to try hard to keep my
children from getting wet.’
Bhanuka, the older boy, has a dream: ‘I want to go to
school, I like to read storybooks. My brother and I don’t have toys. Someday I will study and become a big man and
I will take care of my little brother, our mother and our grandfather.’
Here are some more place names, no less poetic. Nambarawatte is in Ethkandura. Ethkandura is in Ambalangoda. Then there’s Beliattewila in Millewa. Millewa is in Horana. The person associated with these place names
has a name: Uswatte Liyanage Ranjith.
Ranjith was born in Nambarawatte but has made his home in Beliattewila.
Ranjith is a retired soldier who has been in the thick of battle. He has a ‘military look,’ certainly, is
neatly dressed, looks fit and strong, and is disciplined. He is now a driver at Rivira. Ranjith is an entertainer. He is a good actor. He will regale you with endless
anecdotes. He will make you laugh.
Ranjith brought all the poetry and pathos of place names and
being together. He was reading the Lankadeepa in the guard room this
morning.
‘Aney pau!’ That’s how he started expressing his sorrow
about the plight of Chandrika’s family.
He related the story. When he
came to the point where little Bhanuka talks of school, he broke down. He didn’t sob, but the tears rolled down his
cheeks freely.
‘Damn! I never win the lottery. If I did, I could help people like this.’
One couldn’t figure out which was sadder, the plight of the
family living in a cave in Gallinda Mookalana or the incapacity of a total stranger who wants to help but
cannot.
It is recommended that one walks, metaphorically of course,
in another’s shoes for seven miles before venturing to judge that person. There were no shoes for Ranjith to step
into. He stepped into minds and hearts,
he walked over territories of sorrow and political economy, passed from one
climactic zone to another and another until he was in the environs of a small
cave that was hardly shelter, located in a hitherto unheard name, Gallinda Mookalana. That’s pretty fast. That’s empathy that is unadulterated.
Ranjith was unrecognizable from the man who entertains
whoever happens to be around at lunchtime or any other time for that
matter. A child, then? A soldier, certainly. A citizen who understands what citizenship
means. A man who strings together place
names and humanity, can do nothing but cry and therefore weeps without
shame.
This Christmas was humbling.
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1 comments:
I cant speak for non-christian celebration of Christmas. For christians, however, Christmas is necessarily a humbling experience.
Because we see our Lord born in poverty, laid in the manger of a stable-because there was no room for Him anywhere. In the midst of our joy at his birth which we celebrate we are well aware of the way He came.
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